
Embodied Trauma Healing
with Somatic Experiencing®
“Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, need to be a life sentence.”
— Peter Levine, Ph.D., Waking the Tiger
Trauma is part of the human experience, and so is the possibility of resolution and post-trauma growth.
Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) recognises the innate wholeness and wisdom of the body that exists in all of us, and approaches trauma from the perspective of our capacity to recover and restore resilience to the organism.
SE is a body-oriented therapeutic modality for the resolution of symptoms resulting from shock trauma, PTSD, emotional / attachment trauma, and chronic stress that accumulate in the body and nervous system. Trauma, from an SE lens, isn’t in the event itself, but rather in the effect the experience has on the whole person or collective - when an acute or prolonged experience is too overwhelming to be contained and processed, it leaves a residue in the physiology, and the resulting dysregulation in the nervous system can have a profound impact on daily life.
The focus of these sessions is to help you explore and resolve the underlying causes of whatever is troubling you. The body always remembers and tells the story of our lived experience, even if we have no conscious recollection. It’s entirely possible to resolve both conscious and unconscious experiences (implicit memories that are pre-cognitive and/or pre-verbal) held in the bodymind, and to work with your nervous system to restore flexibility and resilience for lasting resolution. We do this by allowing the body’s wisdom to guide the way, as we stay connected to the unfolding inner experience with curiosity, courage and compassion.
“After trauma, the world is experienced with a different nervous system that has an altered perception of risk and safety.”
— Bessel Van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score
The impact of trauma on the nervous system
When faced with an overwhelming situation, your nervous system will ready you to run away (flight), or to defend yourself (fight). When neither of these are an option, dissociation (freeze) will happen as the body’s survival mechanism of protecting against the overwhelming physical and/or emotional. pain of the experience.
During overwhelm, you may not consciously register the pain or even have clear recollection of the event(s), however the body remembers resulting in a nervous system that is either “stuck” in one of the defence responses, or a nervous system that swings between high activation and dissociation.
Until your nervous system finds more safety through completion or resolution, past experiences will continue to have an impact on your present-day lived experience.
Working to restore stability, flexibility and resilience in your nervous system is an essential part of the trauma resolution journey.
How might trauma be showing up in your life?
Trauma can show up in your physical, emotional and mental health, including:
Patterns of tension and constriction in the muscles, joints, fascia, and viscera
Chronic pain, clinical conditions, syndromes and disease
Digestive issues
Sleep issues
Anxiety, panic disorders, defensiveness, emotional reactivity, rigidity
Feeling shut down or isolated, depression, avoidance, procrastination or an inability to make decisions or commitments
Feeling unsafe in your body and the world
Poor self-care, difficulty with boundaries, people pleasing
Addiction, self-harming, disordered eating
Phobias
Shame, guilt, or self-blame
Experiencing difficulty asking for help
Core beliefs of being too much, not enough, or feeling worthless, stupid, helpless, a failure, unlovable…. to name a few.
“Maybe the journey isn't about becoming anything.
Maybe it's about unbecoming everything that isn't really you, so that you can become who you were meant to be in the first place.”
— Paulo Coelho
Outcomes of resolution
- Living more in present moment experience
- Feeling safer in your body and the world around you
- Feeling more emotional resilience and equanimity
- Experience more confidence and trust in yourself
- Feeling more embodied, integrated and whole within yourself
- Experience the freedom to be your authentic self
- Experience more energy, vitality and joy
- Feeling more connected to others
WHO DO I SUPPORT AND WHAT HAPPENS IN SESSIONS?
I support people who…
- feel stuck in unhelpful patterns and beliefs;
- are experiencing pain, disease, emotional distress;
- have a nervous system “stuck” in fight, flight or freeze patterns;
- are tired of talking about their trauma but seeing no real change;
- realise that trauma can only be fully resolved when the body is part of the conversation.
Sessions focus on stabilisation, renegotiation, resolution and integration. This is supported by psycho-education, the application of clinical tools and techniques combined with somatic practices to release and resolve fixated physiological states, and interaction that invites you to move into a different relationship with yourself and live more in present-moment awareness.
MY APPROACH
I offer a safe nurturing space and a compassionate presence where all parts of you are welcome. In my experience, we already have all the answers within us so my role is to guide you in becoming more attuned to your body’s messages and to explore them with curiosity and compassion.
It’s important to know that my approach is one of walking beside you as another human being who has taken a consistent deep dive into healing from an embodied bottom-up approach both in my personal practice and living on retreat with one of my past teachers for extended periods of time.
Embodied Trauma Healing has been born out of 24 years of experience offering somatic practices and bodywork, as well as cmpleting training in Somatic Experiencing. Coming from a background in bodywork, I specialise in providing consensual touch work when beneficial to support your capacity to hold the experience, and to move the “stuck” activation through and out of your body.
Given that most trauma happens in a relational context, the supportive presence of another human being can have a profound impact on your sense of safety and connection, and your ability to process and assimilate. Feeling fully seen and heard by another is, by nature, profoundly healing.
Pricing
Sessions are offered with a tiered pricing structure rather than one fixed price. The intention is to allow more people to access sessions, supported by those who have access to more funds. Please choose the option that feels appropriate to you and your circumstances. You will not be asked to justify your choice.
SUPPORTED*
For those who currently have limited financial resources and can benefit from sessions supported by the community.
€50 / £45 p/h
FAIR
For those with sufficient financial resources who can pay the fair value for the sessions.
€60 / £55 p/h
REBALANCING
For those with good financial resources who wish to support others and help rebalance systemic inequity.
€70 / £65 p/h
*The supported rate is available for sessions in the Lourinhã area and online.
Let’s connect and have a conversation
When choosing someone to support you, it’s vitally important that you feel safe in their presence, and that they have done (and continue to do) their own work in order to be able to hold space for you effectively. If what I offer resonates with you, and you would like to meet me before scheduling a full session, please contact me to schedule a free 20-minute discovery call.
PLEASE NOTE: To ensure the continuity of process and effectiveness of the therapeutic container, I only accept new clients who are ready to commit to weekly or fortnightly sessions.
FAQs
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Embodiment means being present in the body. The more attuned we are to our inner landscape, our feelings and sensations, the easier it is to hear the body speaking. Over time we begin to live more from the wholeness of somatic intelligence rather than cognitive intelligence - the mind becomes more grounded in the sensations of the body and more in touch with simple satisfactions. Our body becomes a faithful and steady resource in an ongoing process that flowers into feeling totally at home in your bodymind, living with more vitality, joy and an unshakeable trust in life itself. We are home and can surrender to the flow of life as it unfolds.
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Your soma is your whole being. Somatic is often defined as relating to the body, as distinguished from the mind. However, the apparent separation of body and mind is merely cognitive - when your body is comfortable and happy, then your mind will be clear and integrated.
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Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat (an overwhelming experience that happens too fast, too soon) or as the end product of cumulative stress (overwhelming experiences resulting from too little for too long, or too late). Traumatic residue results from any experience that is so overwhelming that we are unable to cope and process fully, leaving a residual imprint in the organism.
Trauma may result from a wide variety of stressors such as accidents, invasive medical procedures, sexual or physical assault, emotional abuse, loss or neglect, birth trauma, war, natural disasters, trans-generational trauma including epigenetics, or the stressors of ongoing fear, conflict or oppressive systems.
What differentiates trauma from adaptive stress is that trauma results in disconnection - from the body, emotions, our authentic Self, and in relationship to others. Disconnection is our way of coping with the unbearable and is a necessary survival response to the presence of real or perceived danger in the moment. However when the disconnection continues, it can result in us feeling reactive, defensive, unsafe, isolated and shut down, affecting our present moment experience of daily life.
Ultimately, unresolved trauma can be thought of as being like an unhealed wound from the past, which continues to show up in the present every time it gets triggered.
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SE was developed by Peter Levine, Ph.D., and is based on a multidisciplinary intersection of physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics with more than 45 years of successful application.
Dr. Levine was inspired to study stress on the animal nervous system when he realised that animals are constantly under threat of death yet show no symptoms of trauma stuck in their systems. What he discovered was that trauma has to do with the third survival response to a perceived life threat, which is freeze. When fight and flight are not options, we freeze, shut down and collapse, like “playing dead.” However, this reaction is designed to be time-sensitive, in other words, it needs to run its course, and the massive energy that was prepared for fight or flight gets discharged, through shaking and trembling. If the immobility phase isn’t complete, that charge stays trapped, and, from the body’s perspective, it is still under threat. SE sessions works to release this stored energy and turn off this threat alarm that causes dysregulation and dissociation. SE helps people understand this body response to trauma and work through a “body first” approach to healing.
The SE approach offers a framework to assess and identify traumatic shock and where a person is “stuck” in the patterns of fight, flight, or freeze responses, and uses clinical tools and techniques to release and resolve these fixated physiological states so the person can enjoy more flexibility and resilience in the nervous system, and live more in present-moment awareness.
The Somatic Experiencing approach facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound in the body, thus addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. In a therapeutic process, the client is gently guided to develop a felt sense of safety in the body along with tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotions (and in the case of shock trauma working to complete thwarted defensive responses) to bring resolution to their nervous system.
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Emotional: severe neglect and abandonment, attachment wounding, severe loss, ongoing abuse;
Physical Injuries and Medical: surgeries, anaesthesia, burns, poisoning, hospitalisations, assault injuries such as being shot or stabbed;
High-Impact: surgery, ether extraction of tonsils, electric shock, hallucinations, drowning, suffocation, foetal distress (hypoxia, hyper-cardia), traumatic birth, intrauterine stress, invasive gynaecological procedures;
Inevitable and Inescapable Attack: animal attacks, kidnapping, war, bombing, physical abuse, sexual abuse, incest;
Physical defence failures: falls, high-impact accidents, head injuries;
Natural disasters: tornadoes, earthquakes, floods, fires, social change in the community or homeland;
Horror: witnessing an accident, witnessing abuse, abduction, death or torture, killing or injuring someone;
Systematic Torture and Abuse: war torture, war abduction, concentration camps and systematic abuse including cults;
SE is also effective for working with clinical syndromes, such as fibromyalgia, digestive disorders, panic disorder, chronic fatigue.
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The main difference is that the body is included as an essential part of the conversation because the body is where memories are stored, where wholeness resides, and where integration happens.
We can’t think our way out of trauma. The baseline state of our nervous system is the foundation of our experience of safety in our body and the world around us.
A testimonial that speaks to the possibility of post-trauma growth
“There really are no words to express how transformative and life changing my work with Michelle has been. I’ve grown more in 4 months than in over 20 years in other types of counselling. Anyone working with her should be truly excited for renewal, growth, and a genuine stepping into oneself.
Anxiety, fear and control used to run and dominate my life and my relationships, and I can honestly say, that now, after working with Michelle, they are simply just not a part of my life anymore. It’s like a miracle. I felt them shedding as soon as I started sessions, but never knew it would be this transformative. It’s hard to believe sometimes, but the “freeze” or dissociation that used to be a daily part of my life no longer exists.
I am able to listen to my body for the first time. Honor my voice. Tap into my intuition. Feel confident and peaceful within myself, and let my feelings that come up, simply be. There is no more suppression, and it’s incredible to see how much quicker the feelings flow through me. It’s been a very intense year for me circumstantially, and I do think I would have been in a very dark place had it not been for my work with Michelle. I went from complete overwhelm and fear, to empowerment, strength and bright hope for the future, and the present.
—Sophie R., UK