Somatic Experiencing®

I’m currently in training and have completed the Advanced I level, and will complete my training in February 2025.

“Trauma is a fact of life. It does not, however, need to be a life sentence.”

— Peter Levine, Ph.D.

Trauma is part of the human experience, and so is the possibility of resolution and post-trauma growth. Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) recognises the innate wholeness and wisdom of the body that exists in all of us, and approaches trauma from the perspective of our innate capacity to recover and restore resilience to the organism.

SE is a body-oriented therapeutic modality for the resolution of symptoms resulting from stress, shock, and trauma that accumulate in the body and nervous system. Trauma, from an SE lens, isn’t in the event itself, but rather in the effect the experience has on the physiology of the body - when an experience is too overwhelming to be processed, whether acute or prolonged, it leaves a somatic residue in the physiology of the body and the resulting dysregulation in the nervous system can have a profound impact on daily life.

The SE approach offers a framework to assess and identify traumatic shock and where a person is “stuck” in the patterns of fight, flight, or freeze responses, and uses clinical tools and techniques to release and resolve these fixated physiological states so the person can enjoy more flexibility and resilience in the nervous system, and live more in present-moment awareness. SE can be used to support the resolution of any shock trauma, PTSD and emotional / attachment trauma.

Developed by Peter Levine, Ph.D., SE is based on a multidisciplinary intersection of physiology, psychology, ethology, biology, neuroscience, indigenous healing practices, and medical biophysics with more than 45 years of successful application.

THE SCIENCE

Trauma may begin as acute stress from a perceived life-threat (an overwhelming experience that happens too fast, too soon) or as the end product of cumulative stress (overwhelming experiences resulting from too little for too long, or too late). Both types of stress can seriously impair a person’s ability to function with resilience and ease. Trauma may result from a wide variety of stressors such as accidents, invasive medical procedures, sexual or physical assault, emotional abuse, neglect, war, natural disasters, loss, birth trauma, trans-generational trauma including epigenetics, or the stressors of ongoing fear, conflict or oppressive systems.

HOW IT WORKS

The Somatic Experiencing approach facilitates the completion of self-protective motor responses and the release of thwarted survival energy bound in the body, thus addressing the root cause of trauma symptoms. In a therapeutic process, the client is gently guided to develop a felt sense of safety in the body along with tolerance for difficult bodily sensations and suppressed emotions (and in the case of shock trauma working to complete thwarted defensive responses) to bring resolution to their nervous system.

Dr. Levine was inspired to study stress on the animal nervous system when he realized that animals are constantly under threat of death yet show no symptoms of trauma stuck in their systems. What he discovered was that trauma has to do with the third survival response to a perceived life threat, which is freeze. When fight and flight are not options, we freeze, shut down and collapse, like “playing dead.” However, this reaction is designed to be time-sensitive, in other words, it needs to run its course, and the massive energy that was prepared for fight or flight gets discharged, through shaking and trembling. If the immobility phase isn’t complete, that charge stays trapped, and, from the body’s perspective, it is still under threat. SE sessions works to release this stored energy and turn off this threat alarm that causes dysregulation and dissociation. SE helps people understand this body response to trauma and work through a “body first” approach to healing.

“After trauma, the world is experienced with a different nervous system that has an altered perception of risk and safety.”

— Bessel Van der Kolk, The Body Keeps the Score

The impact of trauma on the nervous system

When faced with an overwhelming situation, your nervous system will ready you to defend yourself (fight), or run away (flight). When neither of these are an option, dissociation (freeze) will happen. Freeze is the body’s protective mechanism against the overwhelming physical and emotional. pain of the experience.

During overwhelm, you may not consciously register the pain or even have recollection of the event(s), however the body remembers and until these wounded unseen parts are allowed to come up to the surface and be held, they will continue to have an impact on your present-day lived experience.

Working to restore stability, flexibility and resilience in the nervous system is an essential part of the trauma resolution journey.

How might trauma be showing up in your life?

Trauma can show up in your physical, emotional and mental health, including:

  • Patterns of tension and constriction in the muscles, joints, viscera and fascia

  • Chronic pain, clinical conditions and disease

  • Anxiety, panic disorders, feeling shut down, depression

  • Feeling unsafe in your body and the world

  • Sleep problems

  • Poor self-care, difficulty with boundaries

  • Addiction, self-harming, disordered eating

  • Phobias

  • Emotional reactivity, rigidity, or people pleasing

  • Defensiveness, avoidance, feeling isolated

  • Shame, guilt, or self-blame

  • Procrastination or an inability to make decisions or commitments

  • Experiencing difficulty asking for help

  • Core beliefs of being too much, not enough, or feeling worthless, stupid, helpless, a failure, unlovable…. to name a few.

“Maybe the journey isn't about becoming anything.

Maybe it's about unbecoming everything that isn't really you, so that you can become who you were meant to be in the first place.”

— Paulo Coelho

Outcomes of resolution

- Living more in present moment experience
- Feeling safer in your body and the world around you
- Feeling more emotional resilience and equanimity
- Experience more confidence and trust in yourself
- Feeling more integrated and whole within yourself
- Experience the freedom to be your authentic self
- Experience more energy, vitality and joy
- Feeling more connected to others

WHO DO I SUPPORT AND WHAT HAPPENS IN SESSIONS?

I support people who…
- feel stuck in unhelpful patterns and beliefs;
- are experiencing pain, disease, emotional distress;
- have a nervous system “stuck” in fight, flight or freeze patterns;
- are tired of talking about their trauma but seeing no real change;
- realise that trauma can only be fully resolved when the body is part of the conversation.

Sessions focus on stabilisation, renegotiation, resolution and integration supported by psycho-education, somatic practices for resourcing, release and nervous system regulation, and interaction that invites you to move into a different relationship with yourself.

Sessions always begin with establishing resource and safety so as to be able to work with the traumatic residue without overwhelming the system further. Resources may be external or internal and I also use my own nervous system to support the experience of safety for the person I’m working with. Once resource is established, we can explore the traumatic shock, uncomfortable sensations and suppressed emotions with curiosity, courage and compassion, guided by the body’s memory and innate wisdom, in a safe and titrated (piece-by-piece) way so the nervous system has time to assimilate and integrate throughout the process.

The body always remembers and tells the story of our lived experience, even if we have no conscious recollection. It is entirely possible to work through past experiences in the present moment - even those that happen in early years before children have words or conscious recollection - and to work with your nervous system to restore flexibility and resilience for lasting resolution.

MY APPROACH

I offer a safe nurturing space and a compassionate, non-judgmental presence where all parts of you are welcome. In my experience, we already have all the answers within us so my role is to guide you in becoming more attuned to your body’s messages and to explore them with curiosity and compassion. The body is an essential part of the conversation because the body is where memories are stored, where wholeness resides, and where resolution happens. We can’t think our way out of trauma.

It’s important to know that my approach is one of walking beside you as another human being who has taken a consistent deep dive into healing from an embodied bottom-up approach both in my personal practice and living on retreat with one of my teachers for extended periods of time.

TYPES OF TRAUMA SE™ WORKS WITH

Emotional: severe neglect and abandonment, attachment wounding, severe loss, ongoing abuse;

Physical Injuries and Medical: surgeries, anaesthesia, burns, poisoning, hospitalisations, assault injuries such as being shot or stabbed;

High-Impact: surgery, ether extraction of tonsils, electric shock, hallucinations, drowning, suffocation, foetal distress (hypoxia, hyper-cardia), traumatic birth, intrauterine stress, invasive gynaecological procedures;

Inevitable and Inescapable Attack: animal attacks, kidnapping, war, bombing, physical abuse, sexual abuse, incest;

Physical defence failures: falls, high-impact accidents, head injuries;

Natural disasters: tornadoes, earthquakes, fires, social change in the community or homeland, floods;

Horror: witnessing an accident (especially with haemorrhage), witnessing abuse, abduction, death or torture, killing or injuring someone;

Systematic Torture and Abuse: war torture, war abduction, concentration camps and systematic abuse;

Clinical syndromes, such as fibromyalgia, panic disorder, chronic fatigue.

Let’s connect and have a conversation

When choosing someone to support you, it’s vitally important that you feel safe in their presence, and that they have done (and continue to do) their own work in order to be able to hold space for you effectively. If what I offer resonates with you, and you would like to meet me before scheduling a full session, please schedule a free 20-minute discovery call here.

PLEASE NOTE: To ensure the continuity of process and effectiveness of the therapeutic container, I only accept new clients who are ready to commit to weekly or fortnightly sessions.

Pricing

Sessions are offered with a tiered pricing structure rather than one fixed price. The intention is to allow more people to access sessions, supported by those who have access to more funds. Please choose the option that feels appropriate to you and your circumstances. You will not be asked to justify your choice.

SUPPORTED

For those who currently have limited financial resources and can benefit from sessions supported by the community.

€50 / £45 p/h

FAIR

For those with sufficient financial resources who can pay the fair value for the sessions.

€60 / £55 p/h

REBALANCING

For those with good financial resources who wish to support others and help rebalance systemic inequity.

€70 / £65 p/h

Sessions are currently available in the Lourinhã area and online.

A testimonial that speaks to the possibility of post-trauma growth

“There really are no words to express how transformative and life changing my work with Michelle has been. I’ve grown more in 4 months than in over 20 years in other types of counselling. Anyone working with her should be truly excited for renewal, growth, and a genuine stepping into oneself.

Anxiety, fear and control used to run and dominate my life and my relationships, and I can honestly say, that now, after 4 months of working with Michelle, they are simply just not a part of my life anymore. It’s like a miracle. I felt them shedding as soon as I started sessions, but never knew it would be this transformative. It’s hard to believe sometimes, but the “freeze” or dissociation that used to be a daily part of my life no longer exists.

I am able to listen to my body for the first time. Honor my voice. Tap into my intuition. Feel confident and peaceful within myself, and let my feelings that come up, simply be. There is no more suppression, and it’s incredible to see how much quicker the feelings flow through me. It’s been a very intense year for me circumstantially, and I do think I would have been in a very dark place had it not been for my work with Michelle. I went from complete overwhelm and fear, to empowerment, strength and bright hope for the future, and the present.

—Sophie R., UK